The Cycle of Fatherhood

“Like as a father pitieth”—
yes, some there are who do;
so God our Father cares about
His own their whole lives through.

This is the day of child abuse;
and even more, neglect.
So many men don’t seem to know
the value of respect.

But godly fathers fill their roles
and go at God’s command;
they seek the welfare of their own
and lend a helping hand.

It all comes back in future years,
when health and strength decline;
a son who knows a loving dad
will treat him mighty fine.

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Parental Confession

It’s painful to admit, dear child,
this fact, most surely true,
that when you married, canceled was
our lease from God on you.

We didn’t make you—didn’t buy
components for your frame;
nor did we pour life’s blood in you
the moment that you came.

For twenty years or thereabouts,
we had the final say;
it wasn’t always right—agreed,
but God-ordained that way.

Your overall response was good;
we lived with love and trust.
We had determined, in our home,
Christ Jesus would be first.

Since you were wed, forgive us where
we’ve meddled—where we’ve failed,
and forced a choice upon you, which
you didn’t want—less hailed.

The longing to feel needed, child,
(our hearts with yours entwined),
our urge to help, at times, pushed us
beyond what God designed.

Our lack of grit and self-control
caused trauma—made you sad;
but please relive the fun days too
you shared with Mom and Dad!

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